Sometimes your greatest test ( you must pass before receiving your greatest blessing) might be how you handle the person you hate. So until you learn to be merciful you will never be mighty. When you hold back on what you could do (to help the needy person that hates you) God holds back on what He can do to you because you are no more deserving of the blessing you seek than the blessing you withhold from the person you hate…. Bishop TD Jakes