Dark-moments are times of profound loss and pain. It is one of those times in our life when loved ones, career, finances, health, freedoms and hope are taken away from us. Dark-moments can be scary, I know. In case, you are going through a dark-moment please remember the following…
God Loves You Unconditionally:
Your thoughts and opinion of others might tell you, ” There is no God. If God exists then, He doesn’t care. He has abandoned you because you are a worthless sinner.” It’s straightforward to estimate our self-worth by the way other people treat us. Often times we let our circumstances define us. If you aren’t careful labels such as loser, sick, divorcee, rejected, criminal, and addict may become sticky in your mind.
Perhaps a number has replaced your name; you’ve become a statistic and are no longer treated as a dignified human being. People are free to make their own mind about you, but the fact remains – you are wonderfully and uniquely made. Your value is not founded on how you look, what you have or by what you are going through. Your true worth is in the integrity of God your Creator.
You are a precious child of your father God.
That’s why He bought you for a price – by giving His only son Jesus Christ to die on the cross. Your spirit is God’s seal of ownership and your unique DNA is a signature proof that you were exclusively made in heaven. God meticulously planned your living here on earth long before you were created. You have been fashioned and sent to this world for a special purpose that involves improving lives in a unique way. Since you matter to Him that much God will never ever leave you.
Dark-tunnel is for your greater good:
“If God truly loves me”, you may ask,“why has He let me go through all this?” Honestly we don’t know the whole meaning of all the suffering. But what we know for sure is that dark-tunnel is a place where all of us must pass through en route to the great triumph. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross once said, “the most delightful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths”. For you to be going through pain can only mean one thing – you are one destination closer to greatness.
Anything that comes your way – no matter how painful it might be – is meant to make you better and happier. In the words of Alan Redpath, “there is no circumstance, no trouble, no testing, that can ever touch you until, first of all, it has gone past God and past Christ, right through to you. If it has come that far, it has come with a great purpose, which you may not understand at the moment.”
At times, the pain can be a natural guide – a beeper in our souls that says we are heading towards a wrong direction. So, take a few minutes and look at your life. Ask God if there is attitude, habit or mistake that He might be just trying to correct. If yes gratefully accept His correction, learn from it, and get up there with Him.
Your life story would never be complete without this chapter. One day you will be in a position to look back at this very moment of your life and appreciate God’s integrity for allowing it to be part of your colourful destiny.
Your dark-tunnel is good for others as well:
Your present adversity is not only for your personal good; it’s also intended to enrich the lives of thousands or even millions of other people. Great people, Leonardo da Vinci said, are those who can smile in trouble, who can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. Nevertheless, the Bible puts it better; it says the greatest people are those that though in trouble still make others smile and use their residue strength to make others stronger.
So, cheer up, mate, because you have something unique to offer. Your pain is not in vain. God is about to uplift others through your present experiences. Open up your heart and stretch your arms to reach out to someone. This can mean anything from feeding the hungry to something as simple as a word of encouragement.
In the words of Os Hillman, “even when you do not feel like worshiping, worship. Even when you don’t feel like praying, pray. Even when you don’t feel like reading His Word, read. Even when you don’t feel like singing songs of faith, sing. When you pray, don’t just talk; listen. Be silent before Him and listen for His still, quiet voice.”
Be calm, you aren’t staying in the dark-tunnel forever:
You’re only passing through it. Every test is for a reason and for a season. However, don’t try to hurry the dark-tunnel process along. “… a caterpillar is doomed to a life on the ground if it is freed from its struggle inside a cocoon prematurely. The struggle in the cocoon is what gives the future butterfly wing power to fly…” said Charlie Dexter.
Just surrender to God’s will.
Be still and trust God to finish His work in you. “Surrendering your life to God” Rick Warren says, “ means following God’s lead without knowing where he’s sending you; Waiting for God’s timing without knowing when it will come; Expecting a miracle without knowing how God will provide; Trusting God’s purpose without understanding the circumstances… You know you’re surrendered to God when you rely on God to work things out instead of trying to manipulate others, force your agenda, and control the situation. You let go and let God work. You don’t have to always be in charge. Instead of trying harder, you trust more. You also know you’re surrendered to God when you don’t react to criticism and rush to defend yourself.”
Never give up hope:
Corrie Ten Boom is a Holocaust survivor and the author of the book called The Hiding Place. After witnessing her family members being murdered in the Nazi concentration camps Corrie said this, “when a train goes through a tunnel and it gets dark, you don’t throw away the ticket and jump off. You sit still and trust the engineer.”
Today, as you go through the dark tunnel of life don’t throw away your hope. Stay still and trust God your Creator. God creates and keeps only what He needs. As long as you are alive God still needs you here. The only time you will be allowed to die (and that time is imminent to all of us) is when your life purpose has been fully served. When this happens it will be even better; you will be gone to be with your Heavenly father to start a brand new life in eternity.
Nonetheless, until then you are going nowhere. According to Romans 8:35-39 nothing in heaven, nothing on earth or in hell; nothing in the past, present or in the future is strong enough to destroy God’s perfect plan for your life.
You are God’s best! Yes, even in your pain; even if you feel ugly, worthless or lonely God still loves you because He is good … always